Child Development Stages - Birth to 24 Months

(from Children's Home Society of California)

Birth to 6 Months

ü      What I May Do

ü      How You Can Help My Development

 

6 to 12 Months

ü      What I May Do

ü      How You Can Help My Development

12 to 18 Months

ü      What I May Do

ü      How You Can Help My Development

 

18 to 24 Months

ü      What I May Do

ü      How You Can Help My Development

 

Birth to 6 Months

What I may do:

ü      Follow movement and sounds with my eyes and by turning my head.

ü      Make eye contact with you.

ü      React to loud noises.

ü      Like to put objects in my mouth.

ü      Make sounds like aah and ooh.

ü      Cry to tell you I need something. I may be hungry, hurting, or wet.

ü      Look/turn away from you or cry when I need a break from an activity.

ü      Lift my head while lying on my stomach.

ü      Kick my legs and move my arms.

ü      Roll over from my stomach to my back.

ü      Move an object from one hand to the other.

ü      Smile and laugh.

ü      Sleep a lot.

 

How you can help my development:

ü      Move objects slowly in front of me so that I can follow them with my head and eyes.

ü      Keep me away from loud noises.

ü      Do not throw me in the air or shake me.

ü      Stroke my head and skin.

ü      Softly talk and sing to me.

ü      Show me books with large, colorful pictures and different textures.

ü      Keep my head from sliding around. My neck muscles are weak.

ü      Give me safe toys like plastic/rubber rings, rattles, or soft objects.

ü      Make eye contact with me and smile a lot.

ü      Change my diaper as soon as it is wet or dirty.

ü      To quiet me down, gently pat my back, hold/rock/walk me, or use a soft voice.

6 to 12 Months

What I may do:

ü      Copy sounds and movements that you make.

ü      Recognize you from strangers.

ü      Repeat actions over and over again to help me learn.

ü      Respond to my name.

ü      Make vowel sounds like aah-aah or ooh-ooh and other sounds like bbbb, dada, gaga, or mama.

ü      Understand what “no” means. (But I may not obey you.)

ü      Hold objects with my hands.

ü      Reach for objects in front of me.

ü      Roll over from my back to my stomach.

ü      Keep my head up and sit without support.

ü      Move around on my stomach or crawl.

ü      Pull myself up onto things.

ü      Move objects in/out of a container.

ü      Drink from a cup and begin to eat solid floods with your help.

 

To help my development:

ü      Play games with me like "Pat-a-Cake" and "Peek-a-Boo."

ü      Give me safe objects/toys that make sounds and feel/look different from each other.

ü      Read books with large, colorful pictures and different textures.

ü      As I learn to communicate and show you what I like/dislike, respond to the sounds and body movements that I make.

ü      Sing or play songs that have a lot of repetition.

ü      Give me room to move my arms, body, hands, and legs.

ü      Keep objects that I can choke on away from my reach.

ü      Give me safe toys that I can bite, bang, shake, or throw like blocks and cups.

ü      At night, help me comfort myself with my favorite blanket, music, or stuffed animal.

12 to 18 Months

What I may do:

ü      Begin to think of ways to solve problems.

ü      Have a short attention span.

ü      Remember things that happened hours or a day ago.

ü      Follow simple instructions.

ü      Say 10-15 words.

ü      Respond to a question like "Where is the ball?" by pointing.

ü      Cry, hit, or have a tantrum when I am frustrated.

ü      Walk without support, but I may crawl sometimes.

ü      Stack one object on top of another.

ü      Turn a page in a book.

ü      Get upset when I am apart from you.

ü      Drink from a cup by myself, but I may spill.

ü      Do things you told me not to do.

 

To help my development:

ü      Encourage me to practice carrying, climbing, pulling, and pushing.

ü      Take walks with me.

ü      Speak slowly to me face-to-face.

ü      Talk to me about what I feel, hear, see, smell, and taste.

ü      Play hide-and-seek and finger games with me like "Itsy Bitsy Spider."

ü      Repeat my favorite books, rhymes, songs, and stories.

ü      When I am frustrated, encourage me to use words.

ü      Praise me with phrases like "Good job!" or "You're working so hard!"

ü      Make sure I get enough rest.

ü      Offer choices to me.

 

18 to 24 Months

What I may do:

ü      Be able to name and point to body parts.

ü      Be able to make sounds that animals make.

ü      Say two-word sentences like "Hold me!"

ü      Use words that focus on myself like "I, me, and mine."

ü      Say 15-50 words and use new words every month.

ü      Climb, jump, run, and walk.

ü      Walk up and down stairs with your help.

ü      Begin to drink with a cup instead of a bottle.

ü      Not like to share.

ü      Help you with dressing and undressing me.

 

To help my development:

ü      Give me toys that I can play "pretend" with like plastic food and telephones without cords.

ü      Read to me and encourage me to find objects in the pictures.

ü      Help me put my feelings into words.

ü      Talk to me about what I'm doing as I do it. For example: "You're rolling the ball."

ü      Provide safe areas indoors and outdoors for me to move around.

ü      Give me large crayons to scribble.

ü      Give me toys that I can pour, scoop, squeeze, and stack.

ü      Keep your eye on me because I may wander away.

ü      Help me eat with a spoon and drink with a straw.